You can erase someone from your mind. Getting them out of your heart is another story.

What do I have as an advantage over the local Chinese students?

Americans always taking initiative and thinking what we can do, while I think the more standard Chinese approach is to take orders.” He says the difference is rooted in the educational system. “In Chinese schools students are encouraged to be quiet and less outspoken; it fosters a culture of listening more than initiating.”

Tale of Two Cities

The Magical City

Hong Kong is beautiful. I can't wait to spend Christmas there this year. Compare to Shanghai, HK is in every respect closer to western civilization. I have yet to discover where I like better: the classy lifestyle on top of Victoria Harbor or wandering the nights away in the city of Unknown till dawn.

生活是什么？是在忙忙碌碌中寻找一丝安静？还是孜孜不倦的追求理想与希望？是在控制欲望的无休止的理性和感性的战斗中挣扎？还是浑然淡定的过着一分一秒？

或许上帝在造就形形色色的人的时候就想好了赋予人类各种各样的性格。于是有的人可以心无旁骛的生活在自己的世界中并享受它，而有的人则难以自拔的看着别人的世界而希冀也可以成为其中的一个元素或者至少可以从中分享一点快乐。或许人类的渺小与无助恰恰就在于对于内心以及投射及外的行为的控制与约束程度不足。境界高一些的可以跳出自身来分析自己的行为，分析自己的想法。但是真正能有多少人可以随心所欲的跟随自己对于应该如何过自己的生活的理性分析而行？可能归根结底，只是懒惰，贪婪与欲望在拖着我们陷入现实的泥浆，让我们离理性与正确的行为与生活方式渐行渐远。

 

人凡如我应该都是复杂的矛盾体。内心中既有由性别角色所带来的欲望与追求和一般意义上对于新的充满乐趣的事物的体验与猎奇心理，也有一股强大驱动力在理性光芒下与之抗争。虽然现在光芒或许还不够强烈，但是我会去寻找更多更强的发光源，取得最终的胜利。或许需要的只是更多的role model的激励罢了。-K

逃避寂寞　期待吃喝玩樂
談得多戀愛更覺　不領會何謂快樂
誰是玩伴　誰是愛的幻覺
誰與我　能永遠　留在夢中天國

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" I’ve internalized the realization that beauty is truly in the eyes of the beholder and that the actual value of an item is different than the stirring it creates in the heart. Yes, there are objects that I hold dear, and while no one will participate in bidding wars for these items, they mean more than the world to me."

his words always beats me.

He has a coldness in him, a sort of emotionlessness, you get the feeling with him= he really doesn'r care about much of anything. 

WORST personality EVER. why am i obsessed.